Relationship

8 Signs You’re In An Unhealthy Relationship

Maria Flynn
Written by Maria Flynn

Relationships are a vital part of life and unless you plan on being a recluse, you’ll find yourself in multiple types of relationships (familial, professional and romantic).  In a healthy relationship, you’ll find that overcoming challenge is possible.  In fact, healthy relationships often DEEPEN after getting through a struggle together.

It’s important to recognize the signs of unhealthy behaviors in a relationship because if you don’t, then long-term exposure in an unhealthy environment could lend itself to you accepting that your experience is “normal.”  You DO deserve healthy and loving relationships and knowing what to look for can help you increase and nurture what’s healthy and also limit the time spent with those who you strip you of your energy.

What to look for in unhealthy behaviors:

1. QUICK TO MAKE ASSUMPTIONS

They’ve already concluded ideas about you and the situation and any time spent trying to convince them otherwise is exhausting and unproductive.  You aren’t being heard (and you likely never will be).  Assumption can quickly turn into arguments.

2. QUICK TO MAKE EXCUSES

They’re ready to point a finger at anyone, but as soon as you call them out on their behavior, they’ll quickly have a reason why it isn’t their fault.  Finger pointing, blame and excuses are natural to them.

3. LIKE TO LECTURE

They’re unable to have a conversation WITH you, it’s more like they’re talking AT you…telling you what they want and expect but never take you (or your time) into consideration.

4. FEAR-BASED DECISIONS

They tend to never trust anyone (including you).  So, any decision they make is made with certainty that they won’t have to leave their comfort zone, nor risk that their “true colors” will be exposed.

5. DEMEANING

They’ll likely never celebrate anyone other than themselves…and they’ll put someone else down only so they can appear greater themselves.

 

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6. MANIPULATIVE

They’ll lie and twist the truth solely to protect themselves and control any situation without a care for anyone else (including you).

7. SOCIAL ISOLATION

If they’re surrounded by healthy and authentic individuals who are comfortable in their own skin, they’ll feel frustrated and make any excuse to remove themselves from that environment (and quickly).  Instead of living from a place of love and light, they’ll feel suffocated by those who do and will find any reason to never have to socialize with them again (and keeping  you away from them, too).

8.  LOTS OF UNNECESSARY DRAMA

Your day-to-day is unsteady because you never know when they’ll bring up the drama (with you or with others).  There is an uneasy feeling when they’re in the room with you and you feel like you’re walking on eggshells fearing what to say next because you don’t know what will set them off.

Unhealthy relationships will take a toll on you and your personal health. You’ll constantly feel drained around the the people who practice unhealthy behaviors…and that drain can turn into serious health issues.  Pay attention to the signs and stop playing their game. You deserve more and the moment you take a stand for what you want you’ll stop being such an easy target for their bad behavior.

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Maria Flynn

Maria Flynn

Maria Flynn is the founder of One Wise Life as well as writer, coach, and creator of ABUNDANCE Bootcamp 3-Week Intensive, an online course designed to help individuals effectively heal, overcome struggle, and experience Spiritual awakening that unfolds self-empowerment creating joyful and ABUNDANT lifestyles. Maria has transformed her own life using the same methods she teaches to overcome obesity and depression to becoming the thought leader she is today using social media and creating a growing fan-base spanning the globe.

Maria has impacted the lives of millions through her online coaching programs and social media presence. With more than 280K Facebook followers and a Facebook LIVE show called, ABUNDANT Lifestyle with Maria Flynn, Maria has created a space for self-love, self-discovery, and self-improvement that answers the inner ache for those wanting more meaning and fulfillment in life and who are tired of suppressing it.

Maria's purpose is to educate individuals to the reality that everyone (no exceptions) is a Sacred Thumbprint of the Universe (an extension and expression of the Universe) and therefore have an innate ability to work with the Universe by integrating their own Spiritual Force supporting the creation of joyful, successful, meaningful, and ABUNDANT lifestyles. Maria's proven that her real and practical approach and system works with clients around the world who've experienced massive breakthroughs.